Headstone Shapes and Sizes: How to Choose the Perfect Monument
When planning a lasting tribute for a loved one, selecting the right headstone shape and size is key. The monument you choose not only reflects personality and style but also must comply with cemetery regulations. In this guide, we’ll explore the most popular headstone shapes, standard dimensions, and custom considerations—so you can make an informed decision and honor their memory with a beautiful, well-proportioned memorial.
Popular Headstone Shapes
Each headstone shape carries its own aesthetic and symbolic significance. Below are some of the most common styles offered by Express Monument Company:
Upright (Vertical) Monuments
Upright monuments feature the classic “tablet” design, standing vertically above the ground to create a prominent and dignified presence. These headstones symbolize strength, permanence, and a traditional aesthetic that conveys respect and timeless remembrance.
Available in a variety of styles, you might choose a rounded‐top (arched) design with delicately carved edges for a softer, more elegant appearance; a flat‐top version with a smooth, polished face for a clean and contemporary look; or a Gothic or mantel silhouette with intricate contours and ornamental flourishes that lend an air of historic grandeur.
Flat Grave Markers - Granite & Bronze
Granite Headstones
Granite headstones are monuments carved directly from blocks of natural stone, prized for their exceptional hardness and resistance to the elements. Available in a wide array of colors and patterns—from deep grays and blacks to rich reds, greens, and blues—granite allows for extensive aesthetic customization. The surface can be polished to a high shine or left with a more natural, textured finish depending on the desired look. Skilled artisans can create everything from classic raised lettering to intricate floral motifs or photographic etchings. Thanks to its durability, granite retains its luster and structural integrity for decades, making it an ideal choice for families who want a lasting memorial that endures weather and time without losing its elegant appearance
Bronze Headstones
Bronze headstones consist of a metal plaque cast from an alloy of copper and other metals, typically mounted onto a sturdy base such as granite or concrete. Over time, the bronze develops a natural patina—often shifting to shades of green or warm brown—giving it a noble, timeless character. The casting process allows for a high level of detail in relief work and decorative elements: raised letters, ornamental borders, and sometimes small sculptural symbols are fused directly into the metal. As a material, bronze withstands corrosion exceptionally well, and when combined with a solid foundation, it produces an elegant monument that gracefully ages and demands minimal upkeep to preserve its dignified presence at a gravesite.
Slants Grave Markers
Slant markers are a small upright grave marker that can be used to mark a single or double grave location. Our slant grave markers are fully customizable in the areas of size, color, shape, and design. We have standard and custom designs that can be tailored to fit your design ideas.
Monument Benches
Monument benches are a type of grave marker that adds a special touch to a location or family estate. Our monument benches are fully customizable in the areas of size, color, shape, and design. We have standard and custom designs that can be tailored to fit your design ideas.
Choosing the Right Shape and Size for Your Loved One
- Review Cemetery Guidelines First
Contact the cemetery to learn allowed dimensions, permitted materials, and design restrictions.
Ask if there are preferred suppliers or if you must use a specific type of stone.
- Incorporate Personal Symbolism
If the loved one adored nature, an upright monument carved like a tree trunk or leaf silhouette could be meaningful.
For someone with a minimalist style, a slant marker or low-profile flat marker with simple etched text may be ideal.
- Decide on Single vs. Double Commemoration
If purchasing for spouses, decide whether to use a single upright headstone with two nameplates or two flat markers side by side.
In the case of bench memorials, a bench-style design can often accommodate two names on one backrest.
Let’s Design the Perfect Headstone for Your Loved One
Your loved one deserves a memorial that not only fits the plot but also captures their story. At Express Monument Company, we specialize in custom headstone shapes and sizes—from standard upright monuments to bespoke bench-style and slant markers.
Our process ensures cemetery compliance, expert craftsmanship, and a final product you’ll be proud to place.
Contact us today for a free consultation, exact plot measurements, and a complimentary Design Proof within 48 hours.